Though some
cynics might complain that Mother’s Day is an “artificial
holiday” dreamed up to sell greeting cards, the fact is that
festivals honoring motherhood date far back in history.
The ancient Greeks
observed an annual spring feast dedicated to the mother
goddess Rhea. (She was perhaps seen as a model mother because
she tricked her husband Cronus, who had the unfortunate habit
of swallowing their children, into eating a rock instead of
their son Zeus!)
The Romans also
celebrated a festival in honor of the mother of the gods – and
like many pagan feasts, it was later adopted by the Christian
church, which dedicated the entire month of May to Mary,
mother of Jesus.
Even today in Spain,
Mother’s Day is celebrated on December 8, the feast of the
Immaculate Conception and the most important Marian holy day
in the Catholic calendar.
Mother’s Day as we know
it in North America dates to the nineteenth century, when an
early advocate of women’s rights, Anna Jarvis, organized a
protest of the unsanitary conditions faced by women in their
communities, and called it “Mother’s Work Day.” Some years
later, following the Civil War, Julia Ward Howe (best known as
the author of the “Battle Hymn of the Republic”) organized a
day on which mothers could rally for peace, having witnessed
the heartbreak and hardship experienced by women who lost sons
during the war. In 1905, after the death of Anna Jarvis, her
daughter continued her campaign to set aside a day to honor
mothers and their important contributions. She lobbied
influential politicians, and finally in 1914 President Woodrow
Wilson signed a bill enshrining Mother’s Day on the second
Sunday of May.
However, Mother’s Day is
not solely a North American celebration. In medieval Britain,
the spring feast of St. Brigid was set aside as a day to honor
mothers, tied to an ancient festival celebrating the first
milk of the ewes. Later, Mothering Sunday was observed on the
fourth Sunday of Lent, and workers were given time off to
visit their mothers, often taking with them small gifts such
as cakes.
Though the observance of
Mothering Sunday had become rare by the Victorian era, it was
revived again in the twentieth-century. In some European
countries such as Denmark, Finland, Italy and Belgium, as well
as in Turkey and Australia, Mother’s Day is celebrated on the
second Sunday of May as it is in North America. In France,
Mother’s Day is observed on the last Sunday of May.
Over the years, the
traditions associated with Mother’s Day developed and
flourished. The giving of gifts (particularly flowers),
greeting cards, letters and later phone calls became
widespread customs. Today more phone calls are made on
Mother’s Day than on any other day of the year, and it is also
the busiest business day for many restaurants.
Paula & Gordon Ireland